To all you fine ladies and gents

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Take care of yourself.

If you are in a relationship with someone who doesn't listen to you, doesn't understand you, is hurtful or manipulative to get what they want, or uses violent words, gestures, or actions - get out. You can love someone with all of your heart, but you can't change them, and it won't bring you happiness. There are many things you can make work if you try hard enough, but sometimes you loose a bit of yourself in the trying. Find someone who makes you more, not less. Because, life is good, and short, and there are people in your life who love you, and worry about your sadness, and share your happiness when you find it.